The Flaming-Arrow-Write

         In life, two kinds of people are worthy of being identified, and the right knowledge of relating with such is crucial if we are to become who we're destined to be.      These people are called the DOWNERS and the LIFTERS. Be sure, you can't miss these set of people, hence, the need to be able to identify them is imperative. You must always be on the lookout in your relations across all spheres, right from your family members to friends to colleagues and so on, because that's where they are, they're not some distant folks, they're nearer than you know.      The Downers are those who, by the nature of the spirit they possess, dampen one's passion and liveliness, bringing their "preys" into the pit of discouragement and depression. One of the things that gives them away is that they always push themselves on others, wanting to be in charge of other people's lives and lord over them. To such, you must guard your heart and mind,...

        Every man has their place in every phase of life, and we must realise that no other place can a man fit perfectly other than the one meant for him. Yes! At each phase of life, they're uniquely orchestrated to be part of you. Students love to value other schools than theirs because, in a way, they've seen all that there is about their schools, especially the flaws overshadowing the good aspects.   I had an experience which reveals this, as students, everyone has one or two things to say about my school that isn't going well, and begin to rate other schools better, then having to discuss with some students from another school, they think that my school is far better than theirs as they began to re-count the flaws they're exposed to but deep within me, I was just smiling if only this people know what we the students here are also facing.     We tend to rate other places than where we've found ourselves, thinking they're much better, while oth...

           One of the things I found out which have the power to destroy an individual, a relationship or a community is keeping secrets, not being open and true to oneself or others. Man, in his nature, wants to hide his flaws from being detected. Well, we may say no one is above mistakes, yet this is not an excuse to continually justify and live in one's error; rather, revealing such flaws to receive help is important.        Secrecy is deceptive. Yes! It is deceptive because it promises safety and relief, but the end is often irreparable damage and distrust. Some, having found out their faults either towards themselves or others, find it difficult to come out openly and confess their wrongs because they think it'll be safe and they will be saved from shame and corrections. Little did they know that the more one's faults are being covered up, the more one is swallowed up in its pit and difficult to access help.  Such as those that...

            What if man was created with one leg, how do you think it would have been? Perhaps, you can try standing on a leg and let's see your stability.          If there's anything to strive for in life, it's being able to live a balanced life. Many have had to live on the two extremes of life due to situations, experiences and lots more. Though you might be able to defend your extremities but know that they're not the best for your existence, and until you learn to find a balance in living, error is inevitable, telling both on you and the people around you.         Life is about finding balance in all things, as it is said, the excess of things is not good. When you find yourself on the positive extreme of life, you lose consciousness and concern about others, feeling very high of yourself and thinking others are not making a push; a reason why they remain in such state lower to yours, and when you find...

            ENERGY , the force behind every livelihood. With good energy, things can be brought to life and with bad energy, morales drop drastically. Everyone has either of these energies they emit, and have you ever considered finding out what energy you release to people around you?        Be the type that brings life to the atmosphere, such that everyone is motivated and raised to good spirits, and not the other way round. Our essence is in positively impacting people, uplifting every weary soul and giving hope to as many downcast.       Whatever energy you carry must first serve you before you can release it, and I'm sure you want to be in a good spirit all the time. So, cultivate within the right form of energy, and you and everyone around you will live a life full of vitality. @flaming-arrow-write